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- My criticisms with modern “influencers” like M.A. Buendia is that they provide shallow advice, something in the lines of “if he hurts you over and over, let him go; you are more important than you think you are”. This is harmful, because aspects of human life is intricate, and advice like these are idealistic, as if we already have the whole context over people’s shortcomings. Thus, it would appear to me that instead of making people think for themselves on what better courses of action they take, said people leave it to these influencers to decide for them.
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hPhc9FU7ycI
- “We don’t have to worship happiness to be happy”
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWWFS9y087c
- Write down all the big things in life that you vaguely want but your haven’t made a plan for
- Fast forward a lot of years until you’re on your deathbed
- “How would you describe your life if you had done it all?” - Future Me 1
- “How would you describe your life if you had done nothing of these?” - Future Me 2
- Write down all of the advice the Future You 1 would give to you now
- Write down all of the regrets that Future You 2 would have about their life
- Identify the things that cause Future You 2 a lot of pain “““non negotiables”””
- “If you had to do this in one year, how would you do it? And if you don’t do this in one year, someone will cut off all your limbs and stick your fiance in jail for life.”
- You could do it + But you’re not doing it = Pain
- Pain of not doing it vs. Pain of doing it
- Cup List
- Buckets are big and a bit exciting
- Cups are smaller and a bit more mundane
- Cup list - it’s the everyday problems that are easier to adapt to than they are to solve